The Rehearsal
Our next meeting will be usually be at the rehearsal, usually the evening before the wedding. While it is helpful to have the rehearsal at the actual site of the wedding, all we really need are the members of the wedding party and enough space to practice the processional and recessional. You will also deliver your marriage license to me at this time. For very small or simple weddings, a rehearsal may not be necessary, or may take place just before the actual ceremony. In general, a rehearsal the evening before will make your ceremony run smoothly and help you to relax and enjoy your wedding day.
Your Wedding Day
This is a day like no other. The passage from single to married is intense and powerful. The wedding party and the officiant should arrive at the site at least an hour before the ceremony. Leaving enough time will help you focus on the experience and avoid stress and distraction. The actual ceremony will usually last 15-30 minutes, depending on the music and readings. You will promise love and commitment to each other, in the words you have chosen. And then I will pronounce you husband and wife! Congratulations!
Before I leave, I will present you with a keepsake copy of your wedding vows. I thank you for the honor of officiating at your wedding, and I wish you great joy in your lives together.
